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self-esteem

Your Low Self Confidence is a Signal of Emotional Damage

emotional damage

Are you presenting a “nice person” image of yourself
only to avoid all confrontations and
yet somehow still feeling unhappy or left out?

Is emotional damage now hidden in your present life? As a child you always wanted to be accepted, and you learned some tricks that gave results for a while. Creating a strong image of a Nice Person helped you to feel more accepted by your parents, siblings, and friends. This nice person always molded to fit the group, accepting the ruling of others without asking for the chance to include your own needs into their agenda. Doing that, your own needs became ignored by others and second priority to yourself, sometimes having to be suppressed completely.

This may be what others expected from you, providing a sense of ease, but you paid a very high price in emotional damage.  After many years of doing the “nice person act” you find your energy is sapped, that you feel empty, devoid of all motivation and sense of purpose.

It is at this moment that you realize the need to choose between pleasing others and losing yourself, or fulfilling your own needs and claiming what you really are, what you really want … and repair the emotional damage.
But fulfillment of your needs is only possible if you learn how to assert yourself effectively and grow your own identity: Self-assertion that is too strong, or aggressive, will provoke powerful reactions that can be stressing or even damaging to your relationships, and being too passive or having a weak self-esteem will leave you very vulnerable to whatever others need or want, sending you back to the starting point.

HAVING BETTER SELF-ESTEEM:

If you gradually build self-esteem, you will :

  • Feel adequate, no matter the circumstances
  • Accept and celebrate your own merits and accomplishments
  • Always feel security and a sense of direction.
  • Stop emotional abuse and mistreatment from the start
  • Attract the happiness you dream of
  • Be able to confidently negotiate any difficult issue.
  • Communicate your views with ease, even in stressful situations
  • Establish your needs and boundaries

To your happiness!

 

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Relationship Repair Month:This Week Is Self Esteem

The Relationship Repair Month, has just made available the second week training, dedicated to self esteem:

Have you ever asked yourself any of this questions:

  • Is There Something Wrong With Me, That I’m Denied Recognition?
  • What is the Value of What I Bring To This Relationship?
  • Why do I Always end on the losing end of a Relationship?

Although all of those questions are good valid ones, most of the time what you are really asking is “How Valuable Do I See My Self”

To zoom in all those questions this week we have created a sort survey, and  don’t forget to download the workbook,
Six Very Simple Things That Your Can Do Today to Start Re-Building Your Inner strength 

 

To access the Relationship repair Month, please visit:

http://nationalrelationshipsmonth.com/relationships-month/week-two-your-inner-compass/

Regards,
Neil

 

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The Emotionally Abusive Relationship is our Focus!

 

National Relationships Repair Month is Waiting For You, to help heal Emotionally Abusive Relationships!

Have you been wishing this holiday season to have a magic opening into a real where there is more love and connection for you?

We are now offering the National Relationships Repair Month project, where we want to share with our readers some keys to improve love and respect and appreciation in their intimate relationships..

So, you too are invited! .Come join us!

Please, log here to register: National Relationship Repair Month

and join us for a better life.

 

emotional abuse

Am I abusive?

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Need to know if this is true: am I emotionally abusive? I’m in a terrible situation, being accused of being a female abuser!

I have had trouble with my 2 year relationship and have recently discovered I am an emotional abuser. They said to me that I am emotionally abusive…. To my memory I have never been abused in any way. I recently broke up with my boyfriend because I thought I “didn’t feel the same” as I had. Is it possible that the recent diagnosis could be causing me to think this way? I am so confused. Am I emotionally abusive? And, besides is female abusedifferent?

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How can I get abuse help?

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I’ve been victim of emotional abuse. I understood it, read about it and now I’m in my way to freeing myself from the damage received. But, the abuser is my mother and, besides that, I have a sister and I don’t want her to be the next victim. How can I help my mother, so that she can heal from what is moving her to emotionally abuse others? Emotional abuse help is not easy to get by…