Stop Emotional Abuse, You Deserve Better. We all know about Sexual Abuse. Abusement. We all know about Physical Abuse. But, we know very little about Emotional Abuse. Emotional Abuse occurs when one person emotionally and psychologically abuses another person who is in need of sincere affection. This kind of abuse takes many forms… When is it abusiveness? When the other person abusively orders, or commands of shouts at the other person, imposing his/her will. Your partner undermines your self-esteem constantly. Emotional abusers deliver mixed messages: “I love you” (I hate you.) It’s like pushing you through a cliff and …
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You’re right about …
You’re right about it, emotionally abusive parents can harm a child a lot more than anything else in life.
I grew up with two …
I grew up with two parents who were both very very emotionally abusive. It really makes it hard to know what to believe and who to trust. The sad thing is, the emotional abuse hurt for a lot longer than the physical abuse ever did.
No Kdavis, you’re …
No Kdavis, you’re not to blame. It’s no one’s fault the way other people choose to behave. When we come across hurtful people, all we can do is try to walk away from them. We are not stupid at all, we are honest about our feelings, while other people are not.
It’s good to hear …
It’s good to hear you are in a healthy relationship now. Emotional wounds leave deep scars indeed, and sometimes, they can take a lifetime to heal.
After 25 years of …
After 25 years of marriage and four children, my abuser left me for the second time….I was devastated. He is everything in this video. Dr. Jekyl/Mr. Hyde…but hid it from everyone. I was the bad guy, except the children know the truth. It didn’t take long for me to feel “free” but the hurt lingers…. I am now in a very loving relationship with a man who does love me for who I am, it’s wonderful.
Thank you. I hope …
Thank you. I hope one day you too muster up the courage to leave because you do not deserve to be treated like I and the others here did.
Hmm..thx enarhk ^^ …
Hmm..thx enarhk ^^you were right you really helped me with my question. I could answer for it at last and be sure of it.I’m thankful.What’s next..I admire you.You left.I couldn’t and..still can’t.But I’m happy for you and good luck ^^
i am going through …
i am going through this right now. I thought I was just stupid, but now I see the pattern of lies and manipulation. Thank God for this. It’s not just me! I’m not to blame.
That’s ok. no …
That’s ok. no problem at all 🙂
Hi Porcelain, I’m …
Hi Porcelain, I’m happy for you!!
It’s better to lose a lover than love a loser 🙂
damn.
this is my …
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this is my ex boyfriend to a t.
i always told him what he was doing, but he called me “crazy”…
who’s crazy now..?
good thing i dropped him like a bad habit!
and if anyone else is going through this,
YOU SHOULD DO THE SAME.
it feels bad at first, but it gets better!
you’ll be able to do what you want again, feel how you want again, and you will most definately find out the same thing i did….. –it’s amazing!!
Sorry for the …
Sorry for the multiposts, but perhaps this is a situation other victims can relate to somehow.
The abuser friend …
The abuser friend of 11 years would make the biggest deal out of something so innocent. One was my character in Warcraft was not wearing it’s tabard (I had no clue it wasn’t) and I did not know how it got unequiped. He dug and dug, even suspecting I was ‘doing things at night online’. which I was not. If he had not said anything, I would have never noticed the lack of tabard as I thought it was on and it usually is.
It was in that same …
It was in that same dungeon adventure that our group had died a couple times which was just an unlucky situation, and two group members left. He tried sending a whisper asking if they would come back but they did not respond. He then started blaming himself, hes a f*ckup ect ect. I mentioned that they probably do not want to talk because some people do that, just ignore situations they don’t like (Our group dyng).
He said that it’s …
He said that it’s an MMORPG and ‘ anti-social retards’ shouldn’t play it. Some people don’t play it for the social aspect and I pointed that out and that he should just stop talking to them since they obviously arent social. He then proceeded to push the MMO thing and called me Thick Skulled. I closed up, and left. I made a secret character and and explained to a group member why I had left and apologized.
**Abusers do not …
**Abusers do not accept “I don’t know’ as an answer. To them it means you do not want to say or are hiding something, not that you actually do not know. Everything has an answer, but we cannot possibly know every answer to every situation’s outcome as it is an unreal expectation. To them this IS an expectation and IS to be followed even when they do not know the answer themselves, they will continue to push you to find/say it.**
Thank you! =)
Thank you! =)
i looked it up too. …
i looked it up too. it’s close cover by wim mertens.
It’s by Wim Mertens …
It’s by Wim Mertens, I think it’s called Humility
i know this is off …
i know this is off topic, and may have been asked previously, but does anyone know the name of the musical piece in the backround?
CANT BELIEVE I HAVE …
CANT BELIEVE I HAVE TO SUFFER LIKE DIS.
SHES KILLIN ME …
SHES KILLIN ME SOFTLY…
I agree with enarhk …
I agree with enarhk. But as you said before, it’s worth leaving someone who is toxic to our lives.
So true “It’s like …
So true “It’s like he pushes you off a cliff then runs down to catch you, only to push you off again.”
Emotional Abuse …
Emotional Abuse happens to both men and women alike. It appears to usually be men though who abuse for the fact society teaches them to be in control, powerful, ertive and dominant. Those teachings coupled with an underlying problem produce our abusers. Emotional abuse can outweigh physical because the heart is harder to heal. It targets you past your defenses (physical) and strikes right at your insides. It messes with your heart, mind, and spirit, the very essences of your being.